「你變好重,爸爸沒辦法一直抱你,要不要自己用走的?」
說完,兒子仍在街上大哭了起來。
利誘他「走回家看卡通好不好?」不成。
改用恐嚇「不走的話,你今晚要睡這裡嗎?」也沒用。
兒子忽然沒由來的說:「我長大了啊。」
是啊,變重是因為長大了。
是我計算路程時,沒把兒子長大變重,自己可能無法多抱他納入考量。
於是,我也停在路邊。
坐著,多等他一點時間。
‘You’ve become so heavy. Daddy cannot carry you all the way. Would you like to walk?’
As soon as I finish my words, my son bursts out crying right on the street.
I coax him. ‘Let’s walk home to watch cartoon, okay?’ It doesn’t work.
I threaten him. ‘If you don’t walk home, you’ll have to sleep in the street tonight.’ It doesn’t work either.
All of a sudden, my son says. ‘I grow up!’
Right, he becomes heavier because he is growing.
When I estimated the distance, I didn’t take my son’s growing weight into account that I might not be able to carry him all the way home.
Therefore, I stop walking.
I sit on the ground, waiting for him, allowing him more time.
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